I am no stranger to those 20 things I’ve learnt in 20 years
post but this one is definitely more focused on the last year to two years or
so. I suppose once I finish uni, I will do a more in depth post about my
experiences and a whole series on uni stuff but I really think this place has
taught be a lot of valuable lessons about myself, ones that have completely
changed my outlook on myself and life ahead of me.
1.
University really
isn’t for me – I feel like I have to explain myself on this because it’s
not that I don’t love uni, the way my course is structured really doesn’t bode
well with how I like to work. My deadlines fall at the end of the term so it
means I do fuck all for like 3 months, do about 2 weeks of solid work and
that’s it. As someone who loves to be busy, this, as you can imagine, leaves me
many days to just sit in bed and watch the day pass by. Plus, the whole dynamic
of university is odd. Think about it, living in a bubble of a bunch of same
aged students and forced to make it work almost, life really isn’t like that
and if uni is supposed to prepare you for real life, this couldn’t be further
from the truth
2. I have a really
good work ethic – I don’t know how much I have spoken about my internship
in china but as the first 4 weeks of it showed me, if I am given a task, I will
give it my all and I will work and work until no more can be done. That was
also the case for my second internship and I was actually complimented on that
in the end. I always feel that saying I have a good work ethic is something I
write on my CV just to get hired, but its an actual fact, and I can prove that
3. Following on from that, I always deserve respect. Respect is a two-way street. You want
respect, that has to be earned. You show me respect I will show you respect.
Simple right. Funnily enough, people don’t seem to get that, and you should
NEVER accept anything less that that. I got less that respect at my internship
and it made me feel like shit and made me apologetic for absolutely nothing.
Now that doesn’t me you go all cold hearted to get this entitled respect
because if you deserve it, you will get it. Don’t force it. Always be kind and
respectful and give everything your all.
4.
I know what it
means to be happy – this is probably just me, but I have always wondered
what it means to actually be happy like what does that feel like. Without even
realising, I know what that it. I feel it in my gut; when something feels good
and when something feels wrong. With this, it means I have complete power over
making myself happy and that is one of the most liberating feelings ever
5. I am an ambivert
– I don’t know why it took me until now to figure this out but an ambivert is
who I am. I am very much an introverted person, more of a homebody than a let’s
go out and get drinks but when I do go out, that’s when that part of me is unlocked
and released. And that’s because I have a balance of introvert and extrovert
features in my personality. Although I have this balance, I think its more like
60/40 or 70/30, more being introverted but this has just explained why I am the
way I am on so many nights out, dinners, etc.
Items worn
Jacket – ASOS
Hoodie – H&M
Jeans – DON’T BUY THESE THEY SUCK!
Scarf – zara sale recently check in store
So those are some of the most important lessons I have
learnt about myself recently. I think every day, we learn something new about ourselves.
Sometimes I think it can take a little while longer in our heads but hey, its
taken me nearly 21 years to figure this out, what will I figure out in the next
21?
stay woke folks x