I 100% get it.
Finding your personal style can be hard. It’s like finding
who you are a person and where you fit into society. You want your personal
style to embody you, to describe who you are to others, but to make you feel
fabulous in your own skin.
Fashions fade but style is eternal. One of those quotes that
gets used all the time but its true. It can be hard to keep up with trends but
find what looks good on you. At the end of the day, you can wear what ever you
want. Fuck what everyone else says. But that little voice in the back of your
mind can sometimes just nag at you saying you cant wear that or you are too fat
for this trend or you don’t have enough boobs for this top or even not enough
ass for these jeans.
As I have gotten older, dressing has become more and more
difficult. I want to be someone that I am not. To be honest I have all the
power to change that but mentally, I am not there yet. So in the mean time I have
to work with what I got. By big boobs, my big ass and overall by big self.
Fashion has only recently started to catering to those that
are on the other end of the spectrum and it is soo much nicer knowing that I can
browse a website and find someone that looks like more or is my size (with a
few exceptions. We still have a long way to go)
To those of you struggling every day in the clothes
department, you are beautiful, you can wear that trend and you own it. The fashion
industry doesn’t have a clue about what real women and men look like. To those
of you with a body that society deems perfect, I envy you. But I am more
thankful that
I get to live a life than that I don’t look like you. You too are
beautiful.
To everyone, embrace your quirks, your curves, your
imperfections, your scars. You are only human after all.
I can’t believe we have come to the end of #fashionfebruary.
I have had so much fun creating consistent content and if you’ve read one post
or them all, thank you. If you want tips on finding your personal style, PLEASE
check this post here.
p.s. the hoodie is from H&M
p.s. the hoodie is from H&M